United In Love Adoptions

How do we know if adoption is the right choice for our family?

By working with your Adoptive Parent Coordinator, you will be provided education and resources to help you know all of your options. You will discuss things such as your financial ability, living situation, & support system- just to name a few- which can help you decide if adoption is the best option for you and the age and situation of the child you wish to adopt. We will dicuss all of your expectations and answer your questions to create a customized adoption plan for your family. This may include marketing to find the perfect match for you or matching you with one of our expecting mothers.

What is the difference between Open and Closed Adoptions?

After you have decided that adoption is the right choice for you and your child, you may choose whether or not you want to stay in contact with the birth parents. The choice is yours to make and your adoption will be cutomized based on your personal wishes between open, semi-open and closed adoption.

• Open Adoption – comes in many different forms. You will be able to read the adoptive parents’ profile, receive letters and photos from them; communicate by telephone; or even meet them in-person. Some open adoptions may include the exchange of names and addresses of the birth and adoptive parents and visitation. In some cases, the birth mother may invite the adoptive parents to be present during labor and delivery or visit in the hospital afterwards.

How am I matched with an expectant mother?

The expectant mother will make a list of the qualities most important to her in an adoptive family. She is shown the profiles of families on our list that meet her requests and who have similar adoption goals matching her various social and medical history. She then chooses from those families. Sometimes, expectant mothers who prefer completely closed adoptions will ask us to select the adoptive family, and this is done in order from our wait list, taking into consideration social/medical situations.

What information will I have about the birth parents and the baby?

All the information we or the expectant mother know about the social and medical information on the birth parents, their family including siblings and grandparents and the baby will be given to you. We generally request HIV, drug screening, hepatitis and all the customary OB/GYN tests from the expectant mother and sonograms are also routinely done. You can usually request any other type of testing or additional sonograms, excluding amniocentesis which the doctors will only perform for a medical reason. There may be charges associated with additional medical testing. You will be given the prenatal and hospital records for both mother and baby with their personal identifying information redacted for privacy protection.

How much does an adoption cost?

The costs of adoption can be wide-ranging, mostly depending on the expectant mother’s living and medical expense needs. Generally, the costs range from $20,000 upwards of $40,000. You will be able to tell us your adoption budget, so we can work with you to complete your family while staying within your budget. When an adoptive family has previously matched with expectant parents, fees typically range from $7,000 to $13,000 depending on the extent services were provided. There are also many organizations that you may be eligible for grants or loans from that your Adoptive Parent Coordinator will be able to connect you with. Resources and suggestions for fundraisers are available; please speak with us about how we can best help achieve your dream adoption.

What is a Home Study and what is the cost?

A Home Study is an independent investigation to verify your suitability as adoptive parents. They are valid for up to one year in Florida and can be updated easily. If you need assistance in obtaining a home study, UIL can refer you to a qualified professional who will walk you through the approval process, followed by two follow-up visits once a child has been placed with you. The total cost is between $1,500-$2,000, and your Home Study must be completed before you can take custody of a child.

When can I obtain a birth certificate and a social security card?

We apply for the birth certificate after finalization of the adoption, and it usually takes 4 - 6 weeks to obtain. Not until the adoption is finalized and you receive the birth certificate will you be able to apply for a social security card for your child.

How long will it take for my adoption to be finalized?

Florida law allows finalization of an adoption once the 90-day post-placement supervision period has expired; however, the Petition for Adoption cannot be set for final hearing the until 30 days after entry of the Final Judgment Terminating Parental Rights. Finalization generally occurs within five months after placement, but can be delayed by a birth parent’s failure to cooperate or the court’s crowded docket. We will keep you notified of your cases ongoing court dates and celebrate with you on Adoption Day!

How do I get the baby on my insurance?

All insurance processes very slightly, once the baby is born you will contact your insurance company to add them. We will help you with any documents needed along the way, including permission to transport the child and receive medical treatment for them. Insurance companies are aware that it takes 5 to 6 months to complete the adoption process in Florida. Most insurance companies in Florida are mandated by law to provide coverage for an adopted child. Coverage can exist from the moment of birth if the adoptive family agreed to the placement prior to the child’s birth. Additionally, federal laws, including the Omnibus Budget Reconciliation Act of 1993 "OBRA '93" (private employers) and the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996 "HIPAA" (governmental employers), prohibit discrimination against adopted children. Therefore, health insurance coverage for adopted children is available to all families covered by group health plans at the time of placement, which is defined as the time when the adoptive family assumes financial responsibility for the child.

Are there age, marital, religious or other restrictions on adoptive parents?

We believe all people have the right to have a family. There are no restrictions due to religious beliefs and no blanket restrictions on age or marital status, and each case is handled based on its individual merit and the best interests of the child. Each family must pass the Home Study and all background and physical environment qualifications.

Can a birth parent change his/her mind once a consent for adoption is signed?

Florida law states a birth parent who executes a consent for adoption involving a child six months or younger, does not have a grace period in which to change their mind. The consent for adoption is permanent and irrevocable from the moment it is signed, and only can be overturned based on fraud or duress. However, in cases where the birth mother is placing a child older than six months, the birth parents have 3 business days to revoke a consent for any reason.

When will the consent for adoption be signed?

Florida law states the consent will be signed no sooner than 48 hours after delivery unless the birth mother is being discharged earlier by her doctor. With a C-section, the wait may be slightly longer as we must ensure that the birth mother is free of narcotic medication prior to signing. Biological fathers may sign the waiver of paternity prior to birth but a legal birth father must sign consents after the birth. If the birth father is unknown, we will file a claim with the Florida Putative Father Registry with the Vital Statistics Department which takes 2-4 weeks to come back.